Sunday, January 04, 2015

Oh my smart baby

I managed to visit a neighbor so that Dawud can play with his friends this evening. Not comfortably enough, the mother of dawud's friend is talking to other mother about other neighbor like "Mr. A is doing this, Mrs B is like this" and go on and on to Mr. Z with sometimes whispering each other. Sigh... . It grows more uncomfortable when I saw dawud's friend was not nice to him. And I asked him to go home directly but to my surprise, he did not want it. Although his friend was not nice to him, he was trying to be nice and try to please her!... which i don't like it of course.

I tried to persuade him to leave saying that mama's friend from Japan will be coming soon and bring him a gift from Japan, even saying that he can use my ipad or watch his DVD. But he did not want to leave, and yes I leave him alone, and the neighborhood mother promise me to walk him home.

All right, and I leave with angry thought why he did not listen to me.

2 hours later, he was home, and I was not really paying attention to him since I was still angry. Yes, still angry! He tried to talk to me and asked this and that, and I just simply ignored him. He talked to my mother saying "Mayang, mama is angry!"
"Why" asked her
"Because I did not want to go home when she asked me to go home"

I was smiling inside my room knowing that my baby understands why I am angry :D

Then he came to me, lay next to me in the bed, and saying " Mama, do you know that if I came home earlier with you, I could not meet A, B, and uncle C (our family)? Do you want me not to meet them? I was happy mama, to play and meet them. You came home first so then you could not meet them right?"

"Oh my God, he is arguing very well. By saying opportunity that he will miss if he goes home with me. Haha so funny yet smart argument"

But I still kept quite

Then he said again "Mama, i am your son, you cannot do this to me. Do you want me to be Mayang's and Papah's son instead? Do you want it?"

Oh my God, is he threatening me? But he said it in soft voice and very lovely.

My instinct told me to hug him and said "of course not. You are my son. You were happy playing there? Then OK. I am sorry!

At the end, I realize that he is getting smarter and smarter. He knows why I am angry without I am telling him the reason, even he knows how to argue with right arguments!

He is not baby anymore...but he is still my baby :)

mega

mayang: my mother, papah: my father

Thursday, January 01, 2015

Welcome Back and Happy New Year 2015!

Akhirnya kembali lagi setelah 4 tahun  blog ini begitu sunyiiii...
Untunglah di penghujung tahun 2014 kemarin, ada trigger yang berhasil membuatku kembali ke laptop. Yah dimulai lagi sajalah, walopun saking banyaknya moment dalam hidupku yang terlewat ...jadi bingung harus nulis apa.

Anyway, life is so wonderful yet challenging recently. But I enjoy every moment. I know I havent introduced you here, my NEW best friend! My baby boy, who will be turning 4 soon.

So, I have not written anything here since he was born. Hehe so he must be the reason why I dont have time writing in this blog.

Maybe

He is occupying almost all my time :)

And then HAPPY NEW YEAR!

it reminds me to this surah Al Ashr:

In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.
By (the Token of) Time (through the ages),  
Verily Man is in loss, 
Except such as have Faith, and do righteous deeds, and (join together) in the mutual teaching of Truth, and of Patience and Constancy. 

   
Hope to see better me every year :)
 
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